Is God mean?

Has God been mean to you? Have you ever spent the time to see if it's because of something you are doing? Do you hate him? Maybe you haven't forgiven somebody and your life is in a stagnant spot because of it. The bible says that God does not even hear your prayers, if you have anger in your heart toward somebody. If you are a believer, maybe God is refining you for your purpose. A construction site is ugly and a demolition is even worse. In order for God to change the old that is in you, he has to rip out. More than likely this would be painful and leave you torn in many places. Maybe he is helping you and you don't even know it. God may not answer your prayers, because you pray for the wrong things, which may be poison to your walk with him. Would a loving father buy his son a chainsaw for Christmas, if he didn't even know how to use a hammer. God loves us enough that he looks out for us. He doesn't want you to go to Hell. If god doesn't answer a prayer it means maybe later or NO, possibly for a good reason. Did you ever see Bruce Almighty? The movie was silly but had some very obvious points to it. If God everyone what they wanted at one time, it would more than likely be the worst disaster known to man. God is far more practical than we are. His wisdom makes us look foolish on our best day. I wonder how long it would take me to wreck the world if I was God. Maybe the things he doesn't bless you with are toxic for you? If you knew this, would you thank him? You also cannot expect God to roll out the carpet for you, if you speak nasty about him. He loves you. He is only doing what is in the best interest of your soul. If he is called the lover of our soul he is definitely not trying to damage his reputation. He really does love you. It might take years to see what he will do in your life. So, don't give up hope.