The mechanics of behavior

Upon further review, maybe people cannot help who they are a lot of the time. I wonder if I am way too harsh on people. After all, sometimes I'm very nasty to others. I believe now, that everything that is evil is caused by fear. I am making an assumption but, I think the next thing I'm about to say is right. No one, I mean nobody, likes to be fake or mean to others. People are doing everything wrong that they do for a release, of either stress or grief or anger. Everyone is hurting when they do things that are atrocious. I wonder if I need to have more mercy with others. If people knew how to relieve themselves of their misery justly, there would not be any crime. This really makes me wonder if anyone is really bad. It makes me think to the comment that Anne Frank made about the Nazi's," All people no matter how mean they are, are good at heart." Not everyone in the world is going to be liked. Do many people like beets? You can't make people like them, no matter how hard you try. People will eat them if they are very, very hungry, but I don't think many people love them. People will like anyone if they are desperate, but rarely do they want to hang out with the ones that are good for them. Most people like meat and potatoes, the great stuff, but too much of this will kill you. If you only like what excites you, you will never grow. You will never change. As much as people fake love, no one wants to be fake. Some people don't try to change because they are frightened of being hurt. you can't love anyone without getting hurt once in a while, and hurt badly. Some people try and always fail because they're afraid that they aren't genuine. Love takes practice, no matter how weird this idea seems. You have to pretend to love before you actually can. You can't ride a bike without getting hurt the first ten times you ride it. After you fall down a few times you can ride it, and you love it!! Do we love swimming, right when learn how to do it. Love and integrity is a learning process. All behaviors are learned. All your favorite foods are learned, and so, is your ability to love.